After i turned in my final essay today, I was thinking about other movies that i could have used as examples. Then, I thought of Whale Rider. I realized that this movie is a great example of finding identity.
'Whale Rider' is the story of Pai (Keisha Castle-Hughes), a young girl resented by grandfather Koro (Rawiri Paratene) for the heinous crime of being born a female. He longs instead for a grandson to carry on the family name, as they are the last descendants of the original Maori leader who, according to legend, escaped death when his canoe capsized by riding to shore on the back of a whale. So, shunning his granddaughter despite her continual attempts to impress, Koro seeks out a new great chief among the first-born boys of the local neighbourhood. Meanwhile, Pai sets about upstaging each of the lads with her superior skills at stick-fighting, swimming, and pulling faces - and even goes as far as to go riding on a whale. She does it to show Gramps that she too can be great, that she too can inspire those around her, and that she too is capable of proudly carrying the family name. Pai believes she is destined to be the new chief. But her grandfather Koro is bound by tradition to pick a male leader. Pai loves Koro more than anyone in the world, but she must fight him and a thousand years of tradition to fulfill her destiny.
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Basically, Pai is supposed to be the new cheif, and she believes that is her identity. But Pai's grandpa wont accept her as the new cheif. Instead, she tries to prove to him that she is the one. Even though she is better than the boys at many of the skills, her grandpa still refuses her. At the end of the movie, she rides away on a whale, to prove that she can be a leader too. Not until then does her grandpa realize that she is capable, but it is too late because she is gone.
I think this is more of a movie about the grandpa trying to realize Pai's identity, because he was too stuborn to accept what Pai was chosen to do. He was sexist and he just wasn't used to any of this happening. In the end, the grandpa was the one that found out Pai's true identity and destiny.